How Do You Love In Three Different Ways? Describing love would seem to be an impossible task. But it is strange that all people in the world know what it is, or uniquely experience it firsthand. For this reason all people agree that love is truly significant in life. What is Love? The first type of love would be Eros. Eros is the very type of love that justifies its existence through the feelings evoked from one's physical attraction. It is because of Eros that people tend to say they feel in love at first glance of another. It is therefore a very good idea to state that nothing good comes out of a relationship if it's only moved by Eros. Eros is lust and relationships based on lust will end up in failure. If men only rely on Eros then they'll eventually want to marry Megan Fox, in the same way that women only have Brad Pitt for a husband and no one else. The class of love that follows is called Philia. It is this type of love that tells the person that being loved by another is the greater law of attraction than physical attraction itself. Philia appeals to the aesthetic abstractions of another person such as feelings. Relationship would start out great when it is being moved by Philia, but it will never end happily ever after. Philia is bound by sentiments and feelings and for that reason, the foundation of love is as fragile as the person's unpredictable mood. Relationships are pointless if it dies when feelings die. The final phase of the three levels of love would be Agape. With Agape, the person loves another not because of good looks or the fulfillment of that feeling. The Agape love is moved by the moral duty to do the right thing for another person's benefit. Agape makes relationships last as far as forever. What makes Agape the best motivation for relationship is that each person would want to do what's best for one another. Relationships succeed because not only do lovers do what's right, they also wouldn't compromise principles for pleasure. Has love passed you by? You'll stand a better chance using online dating services where you get a choice of character traits important to you. Check out computer dating sites at 1Stop-Dating-Services.com attract woman dating book home page| |